Student Employee Reported a Manager for Racist and Discriminatory Comments to a Superior — The Manager Retaliated With Subtle, Childish Bullying

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A 19-year-old student took a job for structure more than money, hoping for a low-stakes routine that could offer a breather from school. Instead, she says she walked into a workplace where her manager made her feel targeted almost immediately, then got even more calculated after she reported him. The account, shared in the original post, lays out a steady pattern of insults, religious mockery, and what she describes as a petty retaliation campaign designed to stay just under the radar.

She describes herself as introverted and focused on working and going home, not building a social circle on shift. But she says her manager’s attention found her anyway—and it wasn’t professional.

The job was supposed to be a mental break, not a daily battle

The student says she doesn’t depend on the paycheck. She took the job to stay busy and to balance the pressure of school with something that felt straightforward. That expectation collapsed quickly once she realized the manager wasn’t just difficult—he was, in her words, “toxic,” with a mix of misogynistic, racist, and anti-Christian behavior that hit her personally as a Black Christian woman.

From the beginning, she says the manager seemed to probe her background. He asked about her religion and appeared “put off” when she said she wasn’t Muslim. She says the dynamic only got worse when he had opportunities to speak to her privately.

Private insults, public games, and a pattern of targeting

She alleges the manager made comments about her appearance while they were alone, including: “you think you’re the shit, you’re not even pretty,” and “you’re trying too hard no one gonna fall for you.” In a workplace, those aren’t just rude lines—they’re the kind of personal jabs that can make an employee feel unsafe and isolated, especially when they come from someone with power over scheduling and assignments.

She also says he repeatedly pushed her into tasks he knew she hated. According to her, the job uses a shift board to assign positions. Even when he wasn’t the manager on duty, she claims he would still change her station to one she disliked.

Another layer, she says, was social: he would speak in Arabic with colleagues, who would then laugh while looking at her. She doesn’t understand what was being said, but she noticed a recurring sequence—laughter near her, then a position change when she returned to her station.

Religious mockery turned the workplace hostile

The student says the most infuriating comments weren’t even about her work, but about her faith. She describes “blasphemous” and inappropriate remarks like, “I’m not your Jesus, I can’t help you,” and “Maybe if you are overwhelmed, pray for him to come,” along with “If it’s too bad try praying harder.”

She says some colleagues laughed, which made her angrier—not only because she felt humiliated, but because she felt it reflected poorly on others who shared the manager’s religion and language. She emphasizes that she keeps to herself, interacts only as needed, and doesn’t stir up workplace drama. In her view, this wasn’t mutual conflict. It was one person deciding to create it.

When she told him to stop, she says he brushed it off as “just a joke.” She didn’t sit him down for a long conversation, and she explains why: she didn’t believe it was her responsibility, as a teenager, to educate a grown man on basic respect.

What pushed her to report him wasn’t just her experience

As bad as her own treatment felt, she says it was hearing about other employees that convinced her this wasn’t a one-off personality clash. She reports that other Black coworkers described worse behavior from the same manager, including calling one a “hoe.” She also alleges he grabbed another coworker by the throat when they were alone, while saying “weird stuff,” and used slurs like “pig.”

That’s when she decided to speak to a supervisor. She wasn’t looking for a showdown, she says—she hoped reporting him would make the behavior stop. Instead, she claims it simply changed shape.

After the report, she says the retaliation got quieter—and constant

Once her supervisor knew, she says the manager became “more subtle and passive-aggressive.” The open insults were replaced by an atmosphere she describes as tense and watchful, like he was “lurking” and tracking her. Their interactions turned strained and performative, she says, with the manager making backhanded comments in front of others that made her seem incompetent.

Even simple questions became ammunition. She says when she asked what she should do next, he would ignore her and then frame it as her failing to take initiative. And because he and some colleagues speak Arabic around her, she feels he can criticize her socially without leaving her any way to respond in the moment.

In response, she started documenting his behavior. She describes it as a “constant stream” of passive aggression—small actions that might sound minor in isolation, but add up to a workplace that feels hostile every time she clocks in.

The day she got sick became the clearest example

The student describes one shift that encapsulated the whole dynamic. She was sick and assigned to a station she hates—already an unpleasant setup. The station was a mess, she says, and she felt overwhelmed. She asked the manager for help twice.

The first time, she says he told her he would come, but he never did. The second time, she says he ignored her completely, making eye contact and then changing direction as if she wasn’t there.

When a director later blamed her for low supply at the station, she explained that she’d asked the manager for help. That’s when she says the manager escalated from avoidance to dishonesty: he allegedly told the director she was doing it on purpose and claimed she had never asked for his help.

Only after that confrontation, she says, did he show up—yet instead of fixing the problem, he offered condescending advice. To her, it read like a performance: do the minimum, make her look bad, and keep his hands clean.

People zeroed in on documentation and safety, not arguing with him

While the post centers on whether she was wrong to report him, the practical reality is what happens next when a manager with power starts retaliating in ways that are hard to prove. The student is already taking the first step many people urge in these moments: writing things down, tracking dates, and preserving patterns rather than isolated complaints.

Her description also hints at a bigger issue commenters often focus on in workplace retaliation stories: when a supervisor is informed and the behavior continues, it can become less about “miscommunication” and more about leverage. The moment the manager allegedly lied to a director about her asking for help, it crossed into something more concrete than rude tone—because it directly impacts how her performance is judged.

She’s also dealing with an emotional whiplash that’s common in subtle retaliation: the behavior is hard to point to in a single sentence, but exhausting over time. She describes wanting to laugh at the childishness of it, even as it keeps tightening around her daily work.

For now, the tension is unresolved. She reported what she says was discriminatory behavior, and she believes the response has been a quiet campaign to punish her for speaking up—through station changes, public undermining, and moments where she says she was left to fail. The job was meant to be a break from stress. Instead, she’s spending her shifts collecting proof that she shouldn’t have needed in the first place.